Hi Joy, how was your journey back to Nigeria? Sure it was stress free for you. Thanks for the 1.6 dep. We bought your Camry, 2007, Black, leather interior, 4 cylinder and formika decorated. I think we got you a good deal with your little money. However, you owe me a thousand dollars for effort, time, and runaround and for the finder’s fee. But for the relationship I will take one half of one grand but only if you choose to, from your heart.
Now Joy, how soon do you think you can find a land in Berga? Lest I forget, thanks for promising to lend money to complete for possible 2-million naira land purchase in Berga Lagos. But if land is not readily available, don't stress for it I would probably add that 5-grand to the 1.6 dep and do fixed deposit. Let me know what you think, if you can. Yes, I mean if you can because I understand how busy you are I said I was never to burden you again yet I believe we can reset the button if we try.
Now Joy, here is why I am burdening you with this email and it has less to do with above but more with Nnabuo. I know we have talked at length on this issue and temper, especially my flared. The reason I am so upset with Nnabuo is that I did Nnabuo good that nobody will ever do for me. I did Nnabuo this good because of the relationship and as my goodwill to him. Today Nnabuo is indulging in what Nigerians call "Racking Sense."
Today in passing, I told a family brother in the village who goes on errand for me that people have taken my trust and goodwill for weakness to the point I feel like killing people and then give up in life. And I meant every word in the statement. This my village brother responded thus, "Victor when you loan money to the first person and he refused to repay, to the second person he eats the money and then if you loans to a third person then you are the fool and the person looking for trouble." Nnabuo May not be the 3rd or the 5th person that have taken my goodwill as weakness but he is among these ingrates who implicitly call me fool or make me look like one. And beginning with Nnamdi, Tony and Nnabuo I will proof that I am not a fool for my goodwill.
Nnabuo is racking sense by refusing or dragging his feet in signing the same agreement I signed for him three years with the Bank of American. I never owed Nnabuo, did not even know him too well, did not invite Nnabuo to borrow from me, and did not have to borrow money for him from a bank. But in the name of the relationship I did to Nnabuo what neither my brothers nor my father could do for me. Today Nnabuo is refusing to make commitment to repay the loan I borrowed for him three years ago. The loan he agreed to pay back within 9 months which was a condition for the loan; just because he feels that it was stupid of me to commit myself to $15000 loan on his behalf. The agreement I ask Nnabuo to sign is similar to the agreement, with same condition that I signed with the Bank of American for Nnabuo in 2009. How worst could Nnabuo call me fool? By signing this agreement Nnabuo does me no favor but only takes responsibility for the money he borrowed 3 years ago.
Now, here is the current situation, last week, Nnabuo told Nwanneka that if I change the monthly payment to $1000 he will sign the agreement. I have changed the agreement to $1000 minimum monthly and sent the agreement to Nnabuo on the 17th. I have not heard from him but he has up to the 30th to sign the agreement. There is another $4070 Nnabuo owes me due to the money I borrowed for him from Bank of America. Nwanneka is a witness, in addition to the $10555 covered in the current draft agreement, Nnabuo made verbal agreement to pay this $4070 not covered in the current draft agreement. Now what will become of this $4070 is up to Nnabuo to tell me. That one does not have money is not an excuse not repay one’s financial obligation at least not here in the U.S. If this is the case nobody will ever be responsible for his or her financial obligation. Here in U.S the responsibility to repay my loans is directly linked to my credit worthiness which in turn is linked to my job. If I stop making payments on the loan I borrowed for Nnabuo I will lose my job, Nwanneka can testify to this fact. Not only is Nnabuo calling me fool by his ingratitude his is also jeopardizing my livelihood. I believe Nnabuo can repay the money he owes me today if he wants and chooses to repay the money. I do not want Nnabuo to sell any of his properties but what good are properties if one becomes slave to them?
But here is the overriding fact, I have the truth, the goodwill, a conditional love and I will win this game, war and whatever name he calls this ingratitude of his. Yet, even if I lose I will be contented with the battles. But it will be impossible for me to lose; truth and good will never stand down for falsehood and ingratitude. As a senior sister to Nnabuo who nurtured him like a mother will do a son, please tell him to never start that he may not like to finish. I say these things for fears of this ill wind and but with respect.
Victor
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